Wednesday, August 26, 2009

Book on Rwandan Marian apparitions released on anniversary

Immaculee Ilibagiza will be appearing at the Gather Us In 2009 Conference at the DCU Center on November 9 along with Paula D'Arcy. Visit the Gather Us In page for more information and to register for the conference.

By Regina Linskey
Catholic News Service (used by permission)

WASHINGTON (CNS) -- Like many stories from Africa, the story of Mary appearing to three young girls in Rwanda "wasn't told" beyond the continent, said best-selling author Immaculee Ilibagiza.

So Ilibagiza wrote the first English-language book about Mary's apparitions in the 1980s at an all-girls Catholic high school in the remote Rwandan village of Kibeho, the only Vatican-recognized Marian apparitions in Africa.

"Our Lady of Kibeho" was released Nov. 28, the anniversary of the first apparition in 1981.

Calling "Our Lady of Kibeho" "the most important book I will write," Ilibagiza told Catholic News Service in a telephone interview Nov. 20 that she can remember hearing about the apparitions from her father at the dinner table, a place where her close family gathered nightly to share the stories of the day and talk about religion.

"My dad said, 'You won't believe what happened; the Virgin Mary appeared to a girl in Kibeho,'" Ilibagiza recalled.

She said she learned the details of the Marian apparitions from family talk, village chatter and the tape recordings of the visionaries and Kibeho onlookers that the local priest recorded and played to his parish.

But Ilibagiza said she wasn't exactly thrilled at the time that another girl saw Mary before she did. That year, Ilibagiza's fourth-grade teacher had told her class the story of Our Lady of Fatima, and the young Ilibagiza made it her mission to become a visionary. Ilibagiza, her best friend and her best friend's little brother pretended to be shepherds, just like the Fatima visionaries, and prayed that Mary would appear to them.

Initially, the local Kibeho priest, villagers and even some members of the Ilibagiza family thought the first visionary, Alphonsine Mumureke, was a liar.

"In my heart as a child, I believed it 100 percent," said Ilibagiza.

Then Mary appeared at the school to Anathalie Mukamazimpaka and another young girl known only as Marie-Clare, who had tormented Alphonsine after the first apparitions. The three visionaries were rigorously tested by medical and church officials. In 2001, the Vatican recognized the apparitions to the three girls.

Crowds gathered to witness the mysterious rains that would fall unpredictably from clear skies and to hear Mary's messages to the visionaries from 1981 to 1989.

The visionaries said Mary asked Rwandans to pray, fill their hearts with love, and reject sin and evil deeds. The visions were joyful until one day in 1984 when all the visionaries reported seeing violence, dismembered corpses and destruction, the book says. Mary warned that if Rwandans did not renew their hearts and dispel evil, there would be genocide, it says.

Mary also requested that a church and a basilica, which Mary named in the visions as "Seven Sorrows Church" and "Reunion of the Dispersed Basilica," be built at Kibeho, Ilibagiza told CNS.

During 100 days in 1994-1995, Rwandans from the majority Hutu tribe hacked to death nearly 1 million minority Tutsis and moderate Hutus. Corpses clogged the roadways and littered the countryside. More than 5,000 refugees were shot by soldiers in Kibeho's church in 1995.

Most of Ilibagiza's family, including her brothers, mother and father, were murdered during the war. For 91 days, Ilibagiza hid with six other women in a 3-foot-by-4-foot bathroom at a neighbor's house. Ilibagiza's best-selling book, "Left to Tell," was about how she got through those horrific days with prayer.

"Nothing can ever be difficult to endure if you know Our Lady loves you," she told CNS.

In the months that followed the Rwandan holocaust, the Marian visions were forgotten, the book says. But as time went on, pilgrims gradually returned.

Ilibagiza told CNS she expects 50,000 people to visit Kibeho for the anniversary this year.


When asked if Ilibagiza knew as a young girl that she would become an author, she said such an idea was "a far-away dream."

"People in my country didn't write things down"; they told stories, she said. "Our Lady of Kibeho" is told as a Rwandan would share a story. It's about her personal memories and an account of the effect the apparitions had on her and her country.

Thursday, June 25, 2009

Reflections on Obedience

How do we obey God? I’ve never been a fan of that word, obey or obedience. I like to envision myself as somewhat of a rebel. I am the fourth of seven children, the first girl. As a teenager I did not like the fact that there were different rules for me and my older brothers. But I suspect that obeying God has little to do with rules. I have been tempted to equate obedience with duty and then I read something written by Liberation theologian, Gustavo Gutierrez, for a Spirituality class that caused me to rethink that idea. Gutierrez said that duty has a ceiling. Once the obligation is satisfied, the duty ends. I think obeying God is limitless, it has no end. For me, obeying God is more about doing God’s will, listening for God’s call and overcoming fear, to follow where the Holy Spirit is leading me.

My participation in an immersion trip to Jamaica is just one example of that.

I had a class from 7-9 PM on Weds. night in the fall semester. One night around mid semester, someone handed out flyers which said that there were still spaces available for a semester break, immersion trip to Jamaica. I stuck it in my back pack. The next week one of my classmates said she had called to get information and she was interested in going but worried about the fundraising. The professor heard us talking and said, “I think you should both go on the trip.” A million thoughts started swirling around in my head. Me? Fifty something, wife of 26 years, mother of two college age daughters, I should leave my family for a week and go to Jamaica? The next day I called the number on the flyer. I got all the details of when the meetings and fundraisers were. I started talking to my family. “I’m thinking about going to Jamaica for a week for school.” My daughters thought it was a great idea. My husband was somewhat non-committal at first but after I made the decision to go, he was very supportive.

In addition, I belong to a very vibrant parish community that supported me both financially and spiritually, before the trip and afterward. Would it have been easier to ignore the gentle prompting of the Spirit? Yes. Have I ignored other promptings? Yes, usually out of fear. I have discovered though, that being part of a loving and supportive community makes it much easier to move beyond the fear. My week in Jamaica was filled with the Holy Spirit. The experience was, for me, a gift that keeps on giving as its meaning in my life continues to deepen and grow, even now, two years later.

Christine Gagne, Commission Member
Currently employed by The Sisters of Notre Dame as a Community Coordinator in their assisted living facility, Notre Dame du Lac in Worcester, MA

Monday, May 18, 2009

Immaculee Prompts Many Discoveries

By Mary Donovan

My mind is aswirl with thoughts about Africa. In anticipation of hearing Immaculee Ilibagiza at November’s conference, I’ve been reading everything I can about Rwanda – and finding out a few surprising things. Mostly I learned how easy life is for me and how hard it is for women in areas affected by war.

I also found out how difficult it is to picture life without the fundamental basics we consider a necessary platform for survival. I’m talking about healthcare (bad as it reputedly is, it’s not that bad). I’m talking about the car, the computer, the tiled bathroom, the lovely lawn, the discretionary income.

I found out that my sister sponsors a woman in the Congo through an organization called ``Women for Women, International.’’ I read the material. It told of one woman who was able with the help from her sponsor to give up prostitution and support herself and her child selling charcoal. Of all the part time jobs I could scrape out of my brain, selling charcoal wasn’t one of them.

I read about Rwandan orphans, some of them children of rape, some of them children of murdered parents. Imaculee Ilibageza has a foundation to help educate these children.

There are other problems and other areas, but I’m still focused on Africa. I read a column recently in The New York Times by Nicholas D. Kristoff and I found out that I am a woman of privilege. I must be, I’ve had seven kids and I’m not dead If I lived in West Africa, I very likely might be. According to Kristoff, in that part of the world motherhood is one of the grimmest risks to human life.

Of course this is true in other parts of the world as well. Poverty, lack of education and inadequate resources are factors. Women die from complications of pregnancy and birth that could often be prevented by simple procedures. A very large factor, evidentally, is the cultural estimation of poor women as expendable human beings.

Kristoff listed organizations which are working to alleviate just these problems: White Ribbon Alliance for Safe Motherhood. CARE, and Averting Maternal Death and Disability.

I found, not surprisingly, that there’s no kicking back and coasting in to the finish. There’s too much to be done.

Sunday, May 3, 2009

Commission Members appear on CatholicTV

Commission members Marie Fusaro Davis and Susan Bailey appeared live on CatholicTV's twice weekly talk show, "This Is the Day," hosted by Jay McFadden, general manager of CatholicTV, and Fr. Robert Reed, director. CatholicTV is a ministry of the Archdiocese of Boston and has an increasing far reach. It can be accessed on via Cable TV such as Verizon (channel 296), Comcast and Sky Channel (depends on which town you live in). Although a Boston-based TV station, CatholicTV is accessible throughout the country through cable and also on their excellent website, www.catholictv.org, where you can watch all the programs live, or from their archives.

Marie and Susan appeared on "This Is the Day" to talk about the upcoming Gather Us In conference in November. Before making their appearance, they were taken on a tour of the station and we'd like to share some of that with you.

This is the foyer of the CatholicTV building on Chestnut Street in Watertown. The building formally was used as a convent for the Dominican Sisters and has a real chapel which is used for the Daily Mass broadcast live on CatholicTV.





The first thing you see when you come into the building is this beautiful tribute to St. Therese of Lisiuex, the patronness of Catholic TV. The tribute includes a first-class relic of the saint.






Here is a picture of the chapel where daily mass takes place. The Dominican Sisters worshipped here daily when the building housed their convent.





This is the main control room for the station.
All the programming you see on your TV originates from this area.










This is the control room for "This Is the Day."









Hosts Jay McFadden (left) and Fr. Robert Reed begin the show.






There were 2 interview segments during the program; Marie and Susan appeared in the second segment. In between the segments, Kevin Nelson, news anchor for CatholicTV, delivers the Catholic Newsbreak.







Jay and Fr. Reed conduct the interview with Marie (far left) and Susan, talking about the Gather Us In conference and the Commission for Women.

Marie and Susan will be appearing again on September 12 to talk more about the conference.

Want to see the interview? Click on the Gather Us In link on the website to see the interview.

Wednesday, April 15, 2009

Reflecting on the month of April

by Ann O'Connor, Commission member

How challenged we are to believe, to hope in what lies ahead in the month of April!

April, the month of transition:
  • gray-brown earth, gray skies sending out rainy messages
  • roadways trimmed in quite deep sand
  • auto hubcaps marking an obstacle course
  • and litter that if finally more visible with the melting of snowbanks
We are called to renew:
  • faith that the street sweepers will sweep
  • the litter bugs will work in reverse motion
  • the Morris Dancers with song and dance will awaken the seeds and prompt the ground to release them
  • flowering snow drops will appear in the woods
  • lily-of-the-valley is unlikely
  • the Creator's call and tender care will rouse in us renewed reason to love again.

Gather Us In Workshop Spotlight:
Linda Gray Kelley

Actress Linda Gray Kelley will be returning to the Gather Us In Conference this year to present a portion of her award-winning play, "Women of the Bible: The Good Girls and the Bad Girls." Old Testament characters such as Delilah, Naomi and Ruth, Bathsheba and Esther will be presented

Ms. Kelley not only performs "Women of the Bible" but she wrote it as well. She fashioned the play as a the contemporary piece with the goal of reaching her audience with the stories of how these Bible women lived their lives. “Even the good girls were flawed, she says, "which means there is hope for us all!”

Her theatre audiences are primarily adults who enjoy the edgy though accurate biblical re-enactments. The series has been praised by bishops, nuns, rabbis, ministers, and religious conferences nationwide. Ms. Kelley’s greatest joy is performing for women in prison, her special ministry.

Featured on her website, www.theatrerising.com, are videos of some of the characters, performed live. There is also a brand new podcast by the same name featured on the website - click on the Audio tab to access the easy-to-use player.

Ms. Kelley will perform the play twice at the Gather Us In conference, during the workshop segments.

Friday, March 20, 2009

Watch Immaculee Ilibagiza interviewed on CatholicTV

Immaculee Ilibagiza was interviewed via telephone on January 2nd on CatholicTV's "This Is the Day" program. Here is the show in its entirety - she appears about 7 minutes in. She talks about her latest book, Our Lady of Kibeho. To get to the controls of the video (play, pause, fast forward, etc.), simply place the cursor anywhere on the video and you will see the controls.

Visit www.catholictv.org to see all their great programs. Commission members Marie Fusaro Davis and Susan Bailey will be appearing on "This Is The Day" in May to promote the conference, and we'll have it for you on this blog.

Here is Immaculee's interview: